they/them

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they/them

  • /ˈðeɪˌðɛm/ US, UK

Rhymes with -eɪðɛm

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From a common format for specifying gender-neutral pronouns in online profiles.

noun they/thems

  1. Internet, derogatory, offensive, sometimes A non-binary person; one who uses gender-neutral pronouns. I've long used videogames as a means to cope with both my disability and my dysphoria, but Baldur's Gate 3 is the first time I've been able to really get into roleplaying a they/them causing mayhem.

verb they/thems · they/themming · they/themmed · they/them'd

  1. transitive To refer to (someone) using gender-neutral pronouns. As per the old Jewish joke “ask two Jews, get three opinions”, there’s room on this seven-strong bill (plus [Hannah] Gadsby) for at least that many different perspectives on gender – including some impish scepticism from Canadian comic DeAnne Smith, who complains about “getting they/them’d against m

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noun non-binary person

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they/them. (n.d.). In Wiktionary, via Micwyn. Retrieved November 6, 2026, from https://micwyn.com/word/they%2Fthem

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@misc{they_them_2026,
  title = {they/them},
  howpublished = {Wiktionary, via Micwyn},
  year = {2026},
  url = {https://micwyn.com/word/they%2Fthem},
  urldate = {2026-11-06}
}