rub someone the wrong way

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rub someone the wrong way

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From the negative reaction of a cat to being stroked contrary to the direction its fur lies.

verb rubs someone the wrong way · rubbing someone the wrong way · rubbed someone the wrong way · rub someone up the wrong way

  1. idiomatic, transitive To cause someone irritation, discomfort or annoyance, often unintentionally, because of one's behavior, manner, attitude or personality. “Look, I tell you what, Mac. Seeing how as you're my best friend” “Yeah!” “Maybe you can look into it for me. Go snoop around the shop.” “Can-can I stop you for a second? I'm sorry. I'm a little confused here. You-you just said that he was your best friend? How is he your best friend over me?” “Well

    Similar: chap someone's hide, raise someone's hackles, aggravate, annoy, nettle, rankle, ruffle, sting, burn someone's ass, antagonize, bother, disgruntle

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@misc{rub_someone_the_wrong_way_2026,
  title = {rub someone the wrong way},
  howpublished = {Wiktionary, via Micwyn},
  year = {2026},
  url = {https://micwyn.com/word/rub%20someone%20the%20wrong%20way},
  urldate = {2026-11-06}
}